Robertson McQuilkin Went Home to Jesus June 2016
Robertson used to joke with me about my passionate interest in leadership. We talked for hours about many leadership subjects. Here is one jewel!
EFFECTIVE LEADERS SEEK SOLUTIONS AND NOT VICTORIES.
Robertson told stories to illustrate his axiom from his days of being president of CIU. Let me paraphrase what he shared. “I wanted the faculty and staff to be engaged and asking good hard questions. I wanted them to research what our position should be on various issues and I designed meetings and created task forces to open doors for their participation.
But there is a downside to all of this investment…. people can develop strong opinions and be passionate about winning for their side of an issue. As president, I saw my role to help us get to a sound solution not get into winning my own victories.”
So — in your marriage, with family and friends and coworkers — what is your goal VICTORIES or SOLUTIONS?
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John 21:15 (ESV)
15 When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.”
My first base every day is LOVING JESUS more than I love anything he lets me do or be a part of accomplishing.
In verse 22 Peter wants Jesus to tell him what will happen to John and Jesus assures him it is NOT to be his focus. I can tell when Jesus is not my first love because I am looking around comparing myself to others. A leader is wasting precious energy when we are caught up in measuring so we can compare, compete or judge. Focus on loving Jesus and walking our your journey with Him.
To examine my focus and my love will take me to uncomfortable exposing places, like it did with Peter. If you hear Jesus say to you “What is that to you?” — relax — he is speaking in love.
Matthew 13:51-52 (ESV)
51 “Have you understood all these things?” They said to him, “Yes.”
52 And he said to them, “Therefore every scribe who has been trained for the kingdom of heaven is like a master of a house, who brings out of his treasure what is new and what is old.”
Jesus closes these kingdom parables by handing his leaders a photo of how he sees them.
They are scribes — teachers like Ezra in the Old Testament.
They are like home owners practicing open hospitality with all who drop in. They have collections — treasures that are NEW (Jesus is the promised one Moses and the prophets had predicted) and OLD (The one who is older than Abraham or Adam and who makes all of the teaching of the Old Testament clear) is training them.
How will your leadership look different in the days ahead as you show off the treasures in your house? Effective leaders are effective teachers.
Matthew 13:47-50 (ESV)
47 “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a net that was thrown into the sea and gathered fish of every kind. 48 When it was full, men drew it ashore and sat down and sorted the good into containers but threw away the bad.
49 So it will be at the end of the age. The angels will come out and separate the evil from the righteous 50 and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Jesus is honest about how messy the kingdom is right now. There have always been hucksters, fakers, deceivers, and the greedy mixed in the compassionate Jesus like peace makers. Be at ease in the mess. God will make sure it all gets sorted out.
There will be judgement but God does NOT put his leaders in charge of trying to carry it out. Don’t let your leadership be defined by judging everyone’s motives, words and actions. You can’t see the heart and your listening and vision are limited and polluted with your own issues. Just lead with your eyes on the King. He has already delegated judgement to the angels! If you are in an ungodly leadership situation — follow God’s word and be responsible for YOUR choices. Be a good steward of YOUR life but trust God to clean up the stinky mess.